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Robert, You've GOT to know that I was kidding about blueberries and strawberries. Although how would you like a strawberry wedding cake? This was suggested to me yesterday. *laugh* I don't think we will eat that much either. My mom said that she could have cared less for food. She said if it hadn't been for her aunt and grandma, they wouldn't have had anything. i LOVE YOU TOO!!! Yes we should go to Sacrament meeting. I would prefer to go to a ward that we really don't know anybody in, this way we are still kind of secluded from the world. If we do this, can we go home after Sacrament meeting? Intimacy: I don't think we will have any REAL problems in this area. (You said my mother said that we might be tense at first. [Did you follow that one?]) I already trust you in this area. Right now it is too much, but on our honeymoon night it will be fine. Attendants: the reason it may seem I am avoiding this is because in a way I am. I think it would be best if we went with our original plans (Best man, Maid of Honor and the others for pictures only). My problem is I don't know who to choose. Debi is to me like Mike Nollar is to you. But then I have Sally who is here presently. Debi has ALWAYS been there. We are still close and can always get together and feel just as comfortable if we haven't seen each other for a year or two. I have a feeling that Sally will back off after we get married. She won't be as trusting in me and I know that in some ways she kind of resents you. I wish that it weren't the case, but it is. I think that asking her to take part in the wedding will help ease some ruffled feathers, but I would much rather have Debi in the picture of us and our attendants (Best Man and Maid of Honor). I feel as if I am stuck between a rock and a hard place and I have to make a decision. It isn't an easy one. I asked my mother about 2 Maids of Honor. She said "no go." She is right, it is an honorary position for A person. I would rather it was Debi, but I don't know what I am to do with Sally -- Do you have any suggestions? Pictures: We will have Temple pictures of those who attended the ceremony, We will have lots of pictures of you and I, pictures of us and extended families (this will probably be a shot or two, it is difficult to do with lots of people. The only reason I wqant to do this is because Lynne had it done for her Wedding and it is nice to have around.), pictures with our immediate families, and pictures with our closest friends (these we will name our groomsmen and bridesmaids, but just ask that they dress in dark suits and for the females in the wedding colors.). Then there will be the cameras that we can arm people with to take candid shots of people throughout the reception. The punch you talked about sounds like the average slush. It was funny because while I was reading this part of your message my mother commented that we could have a slush for a drink. There are lots of similar recipes and my mother has several so don't worry about it unless you are really particular about THIS slush. Graduation: I am glad you want to go to your graduation. My high school graduation was a lot of fun because I sat with the band and played "Pomp and Circumstance" until the last go-round when we ran to the end of the line before marching out onto the field. It certainly created a memory. Since we will attend your graduation it might give me the option of attending mine. I probably won't want to. I want you to though. Your degree is really important to you and me, and I want to see you receive it. I love you. Skiing: This will be a lot of fun. I am sure we will enjoy it originally because I love to try new things. I can't guarantee that I will still want to after the first few times, but my mind is open, who knows. You are the first person to get me to even try it since Derk took me to the top of Solitude and told me "go." Some things I am just not very coordinated at doing. Camping: I hope that we get many chances to go camping, not just in New Mexico. We will have a lot of fun. Well you went back to lunch so I am going to go back to my reading. I have a lot to do before I get back up to Weber, at least 3 books. I love you. The future Mrs. Husted (that's me, Wanda) PS. If you can think of anything to do with Sally Please tell me. This is really beginning to stress me.