ushers

Robert, I love you too!!! Ushers is just another name for the groomsmen. I take it that you read the list of responsibilities for the Bride and the groom. I am not quite sure what kinds of gifts we get each other. When Lynne and Chad got married she "employed" all of us cousins in her wedding and gave each of us little nick-nacks. Most of the girls got porcelain boxes. I am sure that we would get each other something a little more special. I could ask Lynne what they got each other if you want. She seems to be up on the protocol. (I think Chad got her a nighty if I remember correctly.) I usually avoid stress also. Maybe that is why I am so frustrated with the wedding sometimes. My mom asked me yesterday if I would rather just get married, and invite family and really close friends to a nice dinner. Planning-wise this is tempting, but I would much rather celebrate. I thinkwe will enjoy the reception (which is the REAL headache) when we get to it. The ends will justify the means. I was looking through the Bride's guide and we have the major decisions already taken care of. It is just the little petty ones that still need to be done. I hadn't realized how much we accomplished because I kept looking at how much still needed to be done. We have set a Wedding date. This is supposedly one of the harder decisions to make. A decision that is even harder is "should we get married." I know that we should and you have indicated that you know this is the right decision as well. In this last visit we determined the wedding colors and we even found a place to hold a reception. We have decided where we should get married also. If you look behind us, you can see what we have done. Of course we need to look forward and make future decisions, but we have already done a lot. We will have fun oun our Wedding day. We will also receive lots of presents. I love you. I have three mroe messages from you. I can't believe it. I had started this one and left for exercise class. I was gone for an hour. When I returned I had four letters from you. This one came in 10 minutes after I left. Have a good day and don't forget me. I love you. Wanda