Maid of Honor

Robert, The decision is made, I want Debi as my Maid of Honor. I just have to figure a tactful way to tell Sally. It is really hard because I know that she has been expecting me to ask her to be my maid of honor, kind of like you expected me to ask you to the Spring Formal. You compared Sally trying to make me feel guilty to other guys making me feel guilty for dumping them. This happened many times and it was very hard. I usually talked to John about them a lot before I did it. When I get up there you will just have to give me plenty of pep talks. Debi will also be a lot more helpful as a Made of Honor. The Made of Honor has a number of responsibilities which includes Helping the bride in and out of her gown,this isn't an easy thing. This was when I realized that Sally might not be the best choice. We were trying dresses on and Julia helped me get in and out of it. I realized that Sally might not leave the show long enough to do so. I know that you weren't hitting on the timing aspect of my relationship with Sally. I just thought it kind of ironic. I love you, I want to marry you, and I knew that shortly after we started dating. Attendants: my mother said not to give them the title, but I think that we should. This will help to ease Sally's "rejection" (I hope that she doesn't view it this way, but she might). I also have other friends that it would be nice to give a place to, such as Jenny or Julia. They have really found a place in my heart. Julia, like you, became a friend real fast. My mom said that we could ask the ushers to wear dark suit pants and long-sleeved white shirts and we'll give them cumberbuns and bow-ties. You are correct in assuming that you must only rent your tux. My dad will rent his and your father should rent his.. You may assist Mike, but you need not assist our fathers. Flowers: I am not sure. We can check with flower shops and other places in Utah. I don't think it matters that much because the money that is used will eventually be ours, whether it comes out of your pocket or if it comes from the money my parents give us. It will be money that we don't have together. I am going to reply to your other letter later, right now I have to give the dog a flea bath. She has a sudden case of them and we don't know where she played or what she got into, she generally doesn't have them. Joey keeps threatening me that he is going to give her to us for a wedding present. I just tell him that we will be living someplace that doesn't allow pets. I love you, Your eternal friend, Wanda